The gemstones we pick are a lot like us, we just might not know it. And when it comes to a relationship, what better way to represent it than in a ring?
Editor’s note: This article was originally published on January 4, 2020. It has since been updated.
Who doesn't love looking at some gorgeous gemstones and more than that, who doesn't love owning some of them in our jewelry? After all, they enhance our beauty and something about them brings out the sparkle in our eyes. But did you know the gemstone you favor more can actually reveal quite a bit about your personality, especially when it comes to what you look for in a relationship? Well, here's what the gemstone you picked, the one that speaks to you, reveals about your expectations from a relationship.
If you picked this gorgeous blue gemstone, then you might be the type of person who expects your partner to shower you with affection the way you do with them. When you give your love, you tend to give all of you and all you ask is that your partner invest the same kind of emotion with you. Of course, that doesn't mean you'll let them take advantage of your open love because you've been hurt too many times to allow that to happen again. But when you love, it's the real deal.
Like the tough diamond, it's not very easy to give yourself to someone. With your partner, you want to show them the real side of you but you need to know that you can trust them. When it comes to a relationship, you expect honesty. You've been lied to before and have had to pick up the pieces of your broken heart so now, you expect nothing less of complete honesty from your partner. You know that if they are truthful with you, then both of you can sit down and solve any issues that crop up, together.
If you picked this beauty, then you are the type of person whose passionate love is what attracted your partner to you in the first place. So in a relationship, you'd like your partner to feel the same with you and even be willing to try out new and spontaneous adventures by your side. You want your partner to put in the same effort into keeping the spark that brought you two together alive as you invest your all to make it work.
If this is the gem that you favor the most, you are the kind of person who is sensitive to others needs, especially your partner's. You want them to feel special and important and would drop everything to help them out. So in turn, you want your partner to be able to really listen to your needs and show the same compassion. Though you might be confident on your own, you want to be made to feel special by the person you love.
Though the amethyst stone itself is a symbol of healing and love, if you picked it, you're the kind who believes that love comes from being treated as an equal in the relationship. If you consult your partner before making any decisions because you want them to be a part of your life, then all you expect the same from them. And you just want their respect, something that comes when you're treated as an equal.
But no matter what stone you pick, what you truly want out of your relationship is love, respect, kindness, commitment, and compassion. The gem you like the most only enhances one thing that you want above all else in your relationship. Don't be afraid to embrace that.
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