It may just be an image but what attracts your attention first can tell you things about yourself even you might not be aware of.
Editor's note: This article was originally published on February 14, 2020. It has since been updated.
Your personality is dynamic and can surprise even you in the strangest of moments. But despite how we take in knowledge from the world around us and adapt our personalities to it, there are certain parts of yourself that remain constant. And these features shine in the choices you make and the things that attract your attention. And in the following image, the first thing you see can reveal those solid features that make you who you are.
What is the first thing that you see?
If you saw the people first, then you might be the kind of person whose free spirit motivates you to explore the world. You like to find the little things in life that make it worth living and if you ever find yourself in a dull environment, you enjoy brightening up. Even if you're heartbroken, you find the courage to move on and find happiness. Your ability to forgive is a rare quality. Of course, this feature of yours isn't always obvious to others. But those who know you get that even if you prefer to be on your own, you have a way of making your space seem happier and more joyful. They also know that they can count on you to join them on adventures. Whether it's with a big group of people or just your close group of friends, there isn't a boring moment with you around.
You might not always want to draw attention to yourself, but your curious and kind nature creates interest in others for you. However, as much as you love to be free to live your life, your loved ones know that you'll always be there for them. And your partner loves that about you too. As much excitement and spontaneity as you bring to their lives, you also bring stability and put true effort into making the relationship work. Sometimes, the two of you might clash due to too similar or too different a personality, but with the right person, you will fit perfectly with them due to the work you put into understanding them.
If the pillars were what you saw first, then you might be the kind of person who prefers comfort and security over most things. Those around you can rely on you to stay calm during even tough situations and this tends to give you the ability to be a great leader. You may be the type to choose to stay at home and snuggle in with a good book over going out with people. However, when it comes to your close friends, you know how to let loose and enjoy the moment, as long as you're comfortable. However, sometimes, though it may be difficult at first, you take that step out of your comfort zone because you understand the value of expanding your horizons.
For your family and friends, they know how much strength it takes to do so and are in awe of your ability. They admire how you get over heartbreaks and forge ahead. They do wish that you'd open up to them about your pain once in a while so that they can carry your burdens the way you do for them. But they know they can count on you to be their rock. With your partner, your determination to stand by them through difficult times is what they love about you. While one might believe that your partner will soon get bored of such routine, there is a side of you only they see and that is your loving and nurturing nature. But that is when they earn your trust, something that doesn't come easy.
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