You might think that this is the end of the road for your love life, but hold on to the fire within. You deserve the best, but in order to get there, you'll have to brave a storm or two.
Editor’s note: This article was originally published on July 19, 2019. It has since been updated.
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The pain you feel from heartbreak can live within you for months. It changes you and makes you mistrustful, but the pain will not stay forever. You will move on one day and when you do the things you learn will stay with you forever. Your soul is in pain and it has shaken you to the core, but YOU ARE STRONGER than this. You might only feel dread and fear for the future but the right person is around the corner.
I know you opened up hoping that this was the love of your life. You valued him more than he valued you. You thought he would learn and be a better person to you. A caring and loyal partner. Still, he left you in complete shambles. You thought you wouldn't recover from this, but there is still hope. People whose hearts have been broken multiple times go on to find lasting love in the future because they never stop believing.
You thought that believing in the relationship will make sure that it stays and becomes the perfect partnership you were hoping for. You showed him your weaknesses and strength. You showed him a part of yourself that you showed nobody else. Behind your strong exterior was an innocent girl that still trusted. He saw that and still left. But, you know what? That says more about him than you. Never think that trusting him was your fault, this is who you are. Never change that. The world needs more people who know how to believe in the good than see everyone with suspicion.
So what if he was wrong for you? The exes impart life lessons when they LEAVE. We learn that we are stronger THAN WE IMAGINED. The loss might have felt like everything and the end of happiness, but you know that's not true. I know you are made of stronger stuff. You will pick yourself up from this emotional and dark abyss. Hope is what makes us hold on, so don't give up. Even when you think that you are done, you gave your everything and have nothing else to give, just don't give up. You are made of infinite depths and it is time you recognize that.
When you come upon the perfect man, the right man, and a good human being, you will know. He will value you and care for you. There will be love, trust, and loyalty. The heartbreak now will be a lesson for later. You will know when you meet him. His kindness will floor you. But, his kindness shouldn't surprise you. We get back what we send into the universe after all.
You know you're a loving and compassionate human, who is always there for everyone around you. The universe will bring you the perfect person and he is right around the corner after your biggest mistake. You will be taken care of by him, for a change. I know you're independent and capable of taking care of yourself. He will know that too and still will do things for you because it makes you feel happy. He will be the kind of person who wants to make you happy always. He will make the effort to know what you love and hate. He will make sure you are as happy as he in the relationship.
He will be the one that makes all your mistakes worth it.