As life drags us into the new decade, it expects us to learn a few things.
With 2020 less than a couple of weeks away, some of you might be more than ready to close the chapter of 2019. This year might have pushed you through various difficulties, given you a dream only for it to come crashing down, or even just lacked a certain spirit and energy. So with the new year, you may be excited to finally have something to look forward to. But what you might not realize is that along with the start of the next decade is a chance for you to see the important lessons that you might just learn about yourself:
You've had a pretty trying time this year with having to keep up with the numerous tasks that have just been piling on. Even your usual energetic self might not have been able to handle constantly taking care of everyone else's priorities over your own. But in 2020, you might just realize that it's time to slow down and make some time for yourself. The world will sort itself out and you deserve to engage in some self-care.
For the past year, you may have found yourself in situations where you haven't been able to express yourself freely for fear of serious repercussions. And it's gone against your grain to bottle it up as well. However, 2020 might teach you that your opinions matter too and that your voice shouldn't be stamped out. Give yourself the chance to speak up and let others see the real, intelligent you.
You're the type who always takes care of others, especially over yourself. But somewhere along the line, in your attempts to keep your loved ones happy, you started to let them define you. And you may have lost a bit of your own identity because of it. In 2020 though, you'll learn that the only person whose opinions matter, is your own. It's time to give yourself the love you deserve and allow your confidence to help you take on even the toughest challenges.
Being the kind of person who tends to wear their heart on their sleeves, you might have been jumping from one thing to another wherever your heart leads you. This might have made you lose some focus on where you truly want to be in life and could make you feel lost and confused. But in 2020, you may learn that you are more than the overly emotional person people seem to think you are. You have the gift of being focused and practical, something that will help lead success right to you, in all aspects of your life.
This past year, you might have been feeling like you've been giving all your love but not exactly having it reciprocated. You might have let it be because when you love, you give your all and don't usually expect anything in return but in 2020, it's not something you need to be bereft of. You deserve to be loved with the same intensity that you love others. Don't hesitate to ask for your needs to be fulfilled and have your affection returned.
As a Virgo, you might prefer order and practicality. Chaos isn't the most comfortable place for you to be in the middle of but somehow, this year, you might have been dragged into drama that isn't of your own making. And as a result, you might have just felt completely out of place and out of your zone. But in 2020, you might just realize that in the process of having to deal with all of it, you have the strength to deal with whatever life throws at you. So give yourself credit for that.
This year might have been good to you and the next year may just hold even more amazing things for you. After all, you have had to face some tough moments for a long time so you deserve it. So in 2020, you might realize that your tendency to stay humble and never forget those who helped you get to where you are is your true strength. And it will help you find your happiness in your successes.
You have been dealt some hard knocks from life this year and the pain of it may have caused you to close up. You just want to protect yourself from more hurt and so it has become that much harder to trust. But in 2020, you might understand that closing yourself off from others could hurt those who love you. So allowing yourself to slowly build trust and using your intelligent judgment, that can help you build strong relationships.
You might be used to hiding your innermost thoughts and emotions, often coming off as cold and aloof. But only those who intimately know you, see the sweet person you truly are. As a result, 2019 might have been difficult for you with those who didn't understand you constantly judging you. However, in the coming year, you might just learn that allowing others to see that softer side of you isn't a bad thing. After all, you don't actually need to prove anything to anyone.
Rigid structure and method may have gotten you to where you are today, especially in the last year. But in 2020, you'll learn that it's okay to let loose a little bit. You have all this energy brimming inside of you and nowhere to go, so use the next year to experience the things you've always wanted to do. You deserve a good break that can help you truly cherish the exciting moments life has to offer you.
Like the water your sign represents, you have the habit of going wherever a situation takes you. No matter what you are faced with, you adapt with ease. But in 2019, you might have found yourself feeling stuck and resistant to change that was happening too fast for your liking. However, 2020 will show you that you have the potential and strength to deal with whatever life shoves in your direction.
In tune with the world and people around you, sensitivity is your forte. But this year, you might have faced a hard time grounding yourself because of all the chaos that may have surrounded you. In 2020, you might learn that the focus required to stay down-to-earth is all in you and you just have to find a way to have it center you. It'll take some digging but you don't just handle the intricacies of the environment around you without having quite a bit of strength to take it on.Disclaimer : This article is for your entertainment / infotainment purposes.