Take this day to bask in each other's warmth and appreciate yourselves, and cherish the relationship that you have built with so much love.
Editor’s note: This article was originally published on February 11, 2020. It has since been updated.
They say there should not be just one day for romance, that every day is a good day to express love to your partner, and it may be right to a great extent. But if you share a long-term relationship with your partner, it is possible that you deal with challenges and carry out responsibilities on a daily basis. While you love each other dearly, you do not get a chance to show how grateful you are to have your partner beside you through the thick and thin of life.
Therefore, Valentine's day could be a good opportunity to disconnect with the regular humdrum of life and show each other what their presence means to you. While you plan a perfect day for the two of you, what you choose to do on the day could be a reflection of who you are as a partner. Your idea of Valentine's day could be a fragment of your personality and what kind of a partner you are. Mentioned below are a few ideas of Valentine's day and what they could reveal about you as a partner.
Years may come and go, but the charm of a romantic dinner date will never fade away. So if you are all for an old-school dinner date night it probably means that you hold the olden days of love and romance, close to you. While you have moved on with time you make sure that the values of a relationship never fade away. You do not shy away from walking that extra mile to secure your partner and remind him/her every now and then that you are with them forever.
If you think a holiday sounds like the perfect V-day plan you are probably an evergreen romantic who believes romance has a lot to contribute to a relationship. You most likely also believe that age cannot dampen one's romantic side and that a partner only gets more and more attractive with the passage of the years. Harsh words, bitter arguments are not something you want to accommodate in your relationship, in fact, you like to solve problems with love and a hint of intimacy.
If staying back at home sipping a glass of wine, cuddling and dancing by the fireplace, etc., seems to be your kind of V-day, you are the kind of partner who puts their relationship before self in most of the situations. You believe that unity and a deep emotional connection could go a long way when it comes to relationships. You believe in intimacy; both physical and emotional and do not mind emoting every now and then. For you, your relationship comes first!
The thought put in a gift is what makes it special. If you believe in gifting thoughtful gifts to your partner it could reflect your mindful side. It means that you pay attention to the little things in the relationship and believe that little happy moments are what makes a relationship worth holding on to. You are quite diligent and do not want to take your partner for granted. You are also a very adaptable partner.
If the idea of making V-day a 'We-day' sounds like a plan to you, it could mean that the young lover in you is still active. You do everything in your will to not let your relationship turn into a dull affair. You want to feel alive in your relationship and according to you, doing your favorite activities together is the best way to ensure that. You most likely are a partner who faces the challenges head-on and the happy times with doubles enthusiasm. You are not just a partner, you are a companion!
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